Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!

okay I'm gonna be straight up honest, no modesty or hiding facts... but I wanna know if theres something about me that guys don't like.

I'm sixteen years old.

I'm 5'8[%26amp;1/2 or so] and I weigh a lot, we won't go into how much, but I don't look fat, just kinda big.

I have light brown eyes [and contacts, no glasses] and dark reddish brown hair thats cut short with bangs going over half my face, medium skin, and I've been told a very nice face. I also have great legs =]

I'm very smart, one of the smartest people at school. Im very sarcastic, but not necessarily mean. I can be shy at times, and I guess I seem a little standoffish at first, but once you get to know me I'm really fun.

I talk to guys a lot, and I was kinda raised with guys so I can talk to them really easily. but I'm not really feminine, but not quite a tomboy.

but I never get asked out and I don't know why, and I was wondering why? is it because of the way I look, or because I'm not all feminine and helpless? help!

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

Ok, you are talking their talk, walking their walk you get along with them so well that you are "one of them". Show up in a cute dress, hair pulled up, a little make-up and nice heels, they will flip....may not even recognize you. Sometimes, we intimidate those around us when we fit in too well also. I would say you are at a better place anyway, you are still young need to focus on life and studies./...be friends because the healthiest relationship has to start as friends. You do sound pretty and you have the personality, give it time...it will all fall into place....one day you will see the guy next to you....your best friend may become the man you spend your life with and you will be much more successful and happy because of all this "friend time". When you are sitting there on the front porch swing watching the grandchildren play in the front yard, you will laugh at how love and forever happiness was always right there next to you it just took a long time to see and appreciate it. Good luck in life. Remember love finds us when we least expect it!!! :)

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

its probably cause the way you talk to the guys. since you grew up with guys, you probably dont talk to them in a flirtatious way.

so to get asked out, you might want to start flirting.

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

I'm not really sure. I sound almost exactly like you but I have longer blonde hair and guys never have asked me out, but they'll just stare at me like i'm hot or something. Maybe you're just catching all the shy ones...and you sound really pretty, i mean, you don't have to be stick thin for guys to notice you.

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

Err what was the question?

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

maybe its not ur looks maybe it who u r

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

it happens.... you normally get asked out when you least excpet it..just wait....besides its not cool to be a girl whos gone threw like 100 bfs in a year.

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

The reasons for never getting asked out almost never are directly related to your looks, unless they're grotesque. The burned girl, or the one in a wheelchair, may not get asked out for that reason, but the girl who's being honest when she says she just looks big should look elsewhere for answers.

My best guess is the shy-standoffish-sarcastic trifecta. Any one of those can make it hard for maybe-interested guys to talk to you, and a little scary to try. So maybe work on being more approachable.

Also, it helps a lot if you're in activities where you're working side by side with guys. Whether it's school, church, political volunteerism, or a job, that gets you out there. Even if the guy who's your friend isn't interested, he's probably got friends.

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

I think that you should be a bit more flirtatious.

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

its probably b/c your unsure of yourself which makes you come off with no confidence which people dont like

or you might be too cocky and seem big headed

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

they could be intimidated by you

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

to be honest, i have no idea. i'm a 16 year old girl too, and no guys ask me out. and im not exactly feminine, but im not a tomboy either.

when u find the answer, let me know

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

who knows what guys think..i think u should be happy w/ the way u ARE! dress in clothes that flatter ur body! guys shouldnt care about what girls look like, well no one rele wants an ugly ugly person, but to be someone attracking is good..but if half the guys could only hear to what the girls are sayin' w/o looking at the body type or see how they look, MORE than half the guys would really really like girls that arent usually what they go for! but rock it girl! u have to be outgoing and just let people feel like u are girlfriend material!

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

Since you're used to being around guys, they talk to you just like you're another guy!!! 2 words 4 u!......FLIRTING PRACTICE!!! If u don't wear makeup wear some! If u don't wear stiletto's then go get some!! Dress differently... wear clothes that reveal just enough to get a guy's attention. Don't dress like a hooker though! Dress good so that once they see your outside then they'll want to know your inside. Presentation is the key!! Look the part!! I'm just 13 and I know this!!! And I have a boyfriend!!!

Please give me a COMPLETELY honest answer, I don't care if its mean as long as it helps me out!?

when you first start talking to guys, they probably think you're really fun and want to be great friends with you because you're so good at talking to them in a nonflirtatious way. i'm a 16 year old girl and i've had my share of boyfriends and i met them all at very random places. ie. camp, parties, football games, etc. you don't even have to have a crush on them at first, but you have to show interest. try to add some more femininity to yourself either by the way you dress or do your hair/makeup, whatever. having a boyfriend or being asked out can really have nothign to do with looks. my best friend is really pretty and she has never had a boyfriend. so don't worry!